Monday 25 January 2016

David Beckham is heartbroken by his son's reason not to become a footballer



David Beckham and sons Brooklyn, Cruz and Romeo prior to the 2014 FIFA World Cup Brazil Final match between Germany and Argentina in 2014 Michael Steele/Getty Images

David Beckham has said he was heartbroken to discover that his son no longer wants to be a footballer because of the pressure of his father's legacy.

The former footballer has said that one of his young sons told him they no longer want to follow in his footsteps.

Victoria and David Beckham have three sons and one daughter – 16-year-old Brooklyn, 13-year-old Romeo, 10-year-old Cruz and 4-year-old Harper.

Beckham told ABC News that he would love for his children to play football professionally when they grow up, but only if it made them happy.

"One of my boys turned around to me the other day and said, 'Daddy, you know, I'm not sure I want to play football all the time...' It broke my heart a little bit," Beckham said.

He said that his son told him: "Every time that I step onto the field, I know people are saying, 'This is David Beckham's son', and if I'm not as good as you, then it's not good enough."

"I said, 'Okay, stop right there... You play because you want to play,'" Beckham said.

The Beckhams' eldest son Brooklyn was recently on the cover of Miss Vogue. The teenager has over 4 million followers on Instagram but his parents say that they still check every post before he shares them.

"I was so proud," Victoria Beckham said. "I mean imagine, my baby, on the cover of Vogue."

Victoria Beckham also spoke about the interest of her youngest child, Harper: "She loves fashion as all little girls do, she loves putting makeup on and playing with my shoes," she said. "But she loves sports. She's a little tomboy because obviously she has three brothers."

"She said to me the other day: 'Mummy I think I want to play football.' It was a dagger through the heart. I have three boys who want to play football, come on, let one of them want to be in fashion or dance," the designer said jokingly.

Brooklyn recently left the training academy for Arsenal's Under-18 team to focus on his A-Levels. The teenager has said that he wants to persue a career in photography.

David Beckham on his new short fashion film: 'I'm not launching an acting career'

David Beckham at La Bodega Negra for the premiere for his Belstaff Films, Outlaws

1. Tat-watch
In person, the tattoos on Beckham’s arms are so plentiful, they seem less like bodily adornments and more like under-sleeves to his outfit. Which was otherwise very simple: dark grey T-shirt, black jeans, lush and towering quiff of hair. It worked.

2. Comportment
The hand-shaking, cheek-kissing, eye-contact-holding manners on this man are really quite something. Becks for president?
3. The film
It’s a 15-minute-long black-and-white melodrama, shot in Mexico, featuring circus performers, snakes, tarot cards and men in day-of-the-dead-style face paint, with a raspy Spanish voiceover whispering things like: “You are the moth to her flame.” Beckham plays the circus’s daredevil bike rider – complete with handsome Belstaff jackets – and eventually helps rescue the star performer (Katherine Waterston) from her possessive boss (Harvey Keitel).


Alexa Chung, Ciara and Anna Wintour get majestic on the Topshop front row – stylewatch

4. Nerves

Beckham’s first reaction when the idea was mooted was, “a) I can’t act; and b) I would be very nervous doing that,” he says. But director Geremy Jasper manged to convince him he could pull it off. (As did Harvey Keitel, who sent a huge bunch of lilies to his trailer on the first day with a note saying: “It takes a man to give another man flowers.”)
5. Strong and silent
The film’s big inspiration, says Jasper, was Sergio Leone’s Dollars trilogy in which Clint Eastwood is “a man of few words but many squints”, he says. “So I thought that would be the perfect role for David. It’s a big undertaking to have the camera on you like that, to carry a film. So if he plays this stranger, this mysterious figure, who is always watching then it makes it a little easier. He’s got a good face to watch.” Sure enough, Beckham doesn’t emit a peep, but he emotes pretty strongly via raised eyebrows and soulful stares.

5. Acting
Contrary to recent reports, Beckham says this isn’t the beginning of an acting career. His friend Guy Ritchie “has asked me to be in a couple of things – which I do as fun because I know he’s not going to make me look silly. And I really trust him [which is why I did] The Man from UNCLE and King Arthur. But [acting] is not something I’m looking to go into even though people have said I’m launching my acting career. I’m not, it’s just been a lot of fun and something I’ve really enjoyed.” Shame.

6. Victoria’s view
One critic has already given her view of the film – Beckham’s wife. “She was really impressed,” David says. “But she’s biased.”

David Beckham named People magazine's sexiest man alive for 2015

‘I never feel that I’m an attractive, sexy person’ former football star tells Jimmy Kimmel after the magazine cover is revealed on the host’s late-night talkshow

 

Beckham thanked his parents ‘for bringing me into this world’, as well as his hairdresser, stylist and Photoshop. Photograph: Alexia Fodere/AFP/Getty Images

David Beckham was declared “sexiest man alive” by People magazine Tuesday, joining an elite club including last year’s winner, Chris Hemsworth, and a handful of other above-average men.

The announcement was made on ABC’s late-night TV show Jimmy Kimmel Live, where the magazine cover sporting Beckham’s face was revealed.

“It’s the best moment of my career, I can’t believe it,” Beckham joked to the crowd, speaking remotely by video.

“I would obviously like to thank my parents for bringing me into this world. I would like to thank my hairdresser, my stylist, Photoshop,” he said.

The 40-year-old retired football legend’s identity was only revealed after host Jimmy Kimmel made his audience guess this year’s winner.


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“Has Taylor Swift ever made a song about you?” one person demanded.

“Have you ever had a man bun?” another asked.

By the time Beckham’s identity was divined, the audience knew he was a married athlete with children, had an accent and two tattoos, had never been to jail and, yes, formerly sported a man bun.

Beckham was given a small facial mirror as his reward.

“I never feel that I’m an attractive, sexy person,” Beckham told People magazine.

“I mean I like to wear nice clothes and nice suits and look and feel good, but I don’t ever think of myself that way.”

Beckham, who is married to former Spice Girl Victoria Beckham, follows on the heels of last year’s winner, Australian actor and Thor avenger Hemsworth.

The award, which is in its 30th year, has previously gone to Bradley Cooper, Matt Damon, Harrison Ford, Brad Pitt, Tom Cruise and Mel Gibson, among others.

'We miss you': David Beckham shares touching family moment when he and his children paid tribute to the football star's late grandparents

David Beckham shared a touching family moment from earlier in the day, when he and his children paid tribute to the football star's late grandparents.

The family all took a moment at Joseph and and Margret West's grave on Christmas Eve.

Posting a picture of his children David wrote: 'Merry Christmas Nan & Grandad we all miss you especially these 4 not so little kiddies anymore...'

See the latest David Beckham updates as he and his family visit his grandparents' grave 


'We miss you': David Beckham shared a touching family moment when he and his children paid tribute to the football star's late grandparents on Christmas Eve

'Grandad, Cruz is sitting in your favorite chair every day , Nan, Harper & Brooklyn are missing your bacon sandwiches and grandad, Romeo is happy cause Arsenal are ahead of spurs in the league ... We miss and love you. Merry Christmas.'

David and his wife Victoria share Brooklyn, 16, Romeo, 13, Cruz, 10, and daughter Harper, four.

The 40-year-old former footballer married his wife, 41, in 1999 and having clocked almost two decades of married life the two proved they're more in love than ever before on Thursday evening.


'Kisses at Christmas': David and Victoria Beckham smooched under the mistletoe in a sweet snap the former football player uploaded to Instagram on Thursday evening


David and his wife Victoria share Brooklyn, 16, Romeo, 13, Cruz, 10, and daughter Harper, four (pictured with the boys in 2013)

Counting down the hours until Christmas Day, the besotted duo shared a kiss under the mistletoe in a sweet snap the former footballer uploaded to his Instagram wall.

The beautiful frame, which is made up of their silhouettes, sees David and Victoria, 41, locking lips as they stand under lights in a cobbled pathway.

Leaning in for the tender embrace, Victoria's hair is cascading down her back while David is casual in his favoured flat cap.

The caption on the photograph read: 'Kisses at Christmas are always the best ones'.

Beckham added: 'Kids took this picture of mum and dad obviously slightly @victoriabeckham @brooklynbeckham ... Merry Christmas'.

Boys will be boys! David Beckham takes the kids ice skating


Waiting for Santa: Ensuring the big guy in red was catered for, the children left out milk, some scotch and mince pies as well as carrots for his reindeer 


Magical evening: Victoria and Harper enjoyed an evening at London's Royal Opera House on Wednesday for a performance of Christmas ballet The Nutcracker


Feeling festive: Victoria shared photos from the evening on her Instagram page, with the fashion designer and her little girl enjoying VIP seats in a box at the iconic Covent Garden venue

Family time has been the the main focus of this holiday.

Taking to their respective social media accounts, the doting parents-of-four have treated their children - Brooklyn, Romeo, Cruz and Harper - to various themed outings.

Enjoying a boys' night out over the weekend, David took his sons to an ice skating rink while his other half watched a performance of The Nutcracker with her little girl.

David and Victoria Beckham at the 2015 British Fashion Awards


'Sorry but I had to post this': Meanwhile, David continued his mission to embarrassed their eldest Brooklyn

Sharing details of the visit to the iconic ballet performance, the fashion designer gushed: 'Our little ballerina loves the Nutcracker at the Royal Opera House'.

Meanwhile the retired football player continued his mission to embarrass eldest son Brooklyn, 16, by sharing funny a Christmas snap of the teen trying to keep his cool.

This week also saw Victoria share a family snap like no-other with her social media followers, as the mischievous mum posted a picture of her family as Minions


Despicable V and her brood: Victoria Beckham shared a family snap like no-other with her Instagram followers, as the mischievous mum posted a picture of her family as Minions



Why Miami made David Beckham work hard for his MLS stadium dream

When David Beckham rolled into Miami in February 2014, promising and expecting the world, he probably didn’t foresee 22 months elapsing without a home for his planned MLS expansion franchise.

After a protracted struggle, which involved four publicly floated locations, objections from cruise lines, ludicrous demands from private landowners and calls to build a high school at the stadium, the former England captain finally has a venue in place.


David Beckham's MLS team to build stadium in Miami's Overtown district

The agreed-upon site in the Overtown district will enable the construction of a privately-funded 25,000 seat arena at an estimated cost of $250m. The Miami Beckham United group says it is “closer than ever,” while MLS owners approved the location over the weekend. It is now hoped a team can take the field as soon as 2018.

But why did it take so long? Why did a city initially so enamoured with the Beckham make life so difficult, despite his promise not to seek a dime of public cash?

It began just six weeks after Beckham’s initial pitch to the city. Artists’ impressions of a waterfront stadium at PortMiami overlooking the downtown skyline inspired awe.

However, Royal Caribbean Cruises, a top earner for the city, wasn’t fawning. It expressed “deep reservations,” claiming land was needed for continued port development and that traffic and parking strains would impede cruisegoers.

In a full-page ad in the Miami Herald, a Miami Seaport Alliance led by the liner insisted PortMiami was not viable “due to the risks a port stadium would pose to jobs, cruise and cargo operations, security, and the port’s promising future.”

With hindsight, the plan was fanciful; a home run swing from a group looking to get on base. However, it’s not as though Beckham’s ambitious pitch had come without encouragement. Promises had been made.
“The City of Miami and the people ofMiami deserve a stadium that they’re proud of. And they deserve a stadium that’s in a great place,” Beckham had said. “The commissioners and the mayor have promised us that we will be downtown.”

A new Plan A soon emerged at an unused boat slip next to the Miami Heat’s American Airlines Arena. It was a plan supported by city and county mayors.

What followed were talks of an awkward land transfer from city to county, debates over property taxes and environmental concerns over an artificial reef. Two million dollars a year was offered in rent, but in June 2014, City mayor Tomás Regalado admitted the slip was “off the table.”


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“Our team’s going to pause,” Beckham’s real estate adviser John Alschuler said. “They’re going to consider all alternatives and look forward to constructive engagement.”

And pause they did. After a year of radio silence, hopes began to ebb. Beckham himself reiterated his hope and confidence in interviews, but began to sound less convincing.

Meanwhile, MLS officials were shifting in their seats. Other markets like San Antonio and Sacramento poised themselves to jump in Miami’s designated spot as the league’s 24th team.

In May, MLS commissioner Don Garber appeared to be losing confidence in the group’s ability to find a suitable home.

“I believe that there is a possibility for us to be in Miami, but it does need to be right,” he said. “Just because an opportunity exists doesn’t mean that we’re going to close on that deal, because we want to be sure that any new team has the opportunity to be successful.”
Putting the squeeze on the Orange Bowl site

In July, a possibility sprang at the old Orange Bowl site adjacent to Marlins Park, a setting Beckham had originally rejected. However, by this point, the group was practically begging.

They had promised to transfer ownership of any stadium to the local school board, to reimburse schools for property taxes they may incur, spend $500,000 a year for the upkeep of community soccer fields and build a soccer academy. 

 Miami MLS fans at the PAMM Art Museum in 2014. Photograph: Vallery Jean/FilmMagic

The proposals represented “the most financially responsible, publicly-vetted stadium agreement Miami has ever seen,” investor Tim Leiweke wrote in a Miami Herald editorial.

And it all looked so promising until some textbook Florida absurdity undermined the entire deal. The Beckham group had pledged to pay ‘above market value’ for any land. One day-care owner with property valued at $368,000 asked for $30m, and the deal was as good as dead.

Three times Miami Beckham United had publically announced plans without having deals in place for the real estate. Three times those plans had failed. A lesson had finally been learned.

Despite Miami Beckham United’s vow to foot the entire bill for the stadium and seek no public assistance, Miami’s taxpayers and collectors had 2.4 billion reasons to resist Beckham’s considerable charm in favour of due diligence.

Less than a decade ago, the city and county granted a hugely controversial public investment of $490m to fund the Miami Marlins baseball park. Public cost will rise to an estimated $2.4bn over the next 40 years.

After pleading poverty and lying about the team’s earningsin order to secure funds, owner Jeffrey Loria’s pledge to create a competing team remains hopelessly unfulfilled, four seasons after Marlins Park opened.

The club scrimps on payroll (30th, 29th, 29th in the last three years) and, even in the face of sparse attendances from a disenfranchised fan base, still profits from league revenue sharing rules.

Loria undoubtedly set a precedent, which has harmed the Beckham group. Future stadium proposals would be subject to far greater scrutiny and scepticism.

Even Miami Dolphins owner Steve Ross was denied public money for the $400m Sun Life Stadium renovations that should bring a Super Bowl back to South Florida as soon as 2019.
Underwhelmed with Overtown?

The newly agreed-upon location feels somewhat like consolation prize; fourth on the totem pole, below a site initially rejected. While it is relatively close to downtown and has great public transport links, Overtown is currently an unglamorous area politely referred to as the “urban core.”

Beckham and the MLS brass dreamed of channelling the European-style ritual of walking to the match, as adopted successfully by MLS fans in Seattle, Portland and Toronto.

“Football fans, soccer fans love to walk to games as a community – and I know that we’re going to have that here,” Beckham said initially.

Except Overtown isn’t the kind of place people like to walk right now.

Max Ramos-Paez of the Southern Legion fans group said: “People seem to like the location in terms of where it is in Miami. However, some don’t like that it’s in Overtown due to its notoriety as a dangerous area.”

Regeneration of the historic African American neighbourhood is underway, albeit amid protests over gentrification. The Miami MLS stadium will naturally play a large part in the plans to attract businesses and tourism in to the area.

As land will be owned outright, the group will be eligible to pay property taxes, a point of contention during discussions over leased land. The private deal also eschews the need for a potentially threatening public referendum, so there are plenty of positives.

Miami Beckham United still has some hurdles to overcome. It needs to negotiate a fair price for the county land, and proposals will need approval from Miami-Dade commissioners before a shovel hits the ground. They also want to close down an existing street on the stadium site, which is “a big deal,” according to Mayor Regalado.

“This is when the community needs to come out and speak about the stadium, he said. “The community needs to have a voice during the zoning changes.”

City manager Daniel Alfonso has told Beckham representatives “we’ll work with you,” and “we’re not going to obstruct anything,” but nothing is finalised just yet.

In terms of achieving his MLS Miami dream, Beckham is past the last defender and bearing down on goal. But it’s not a gimme. Miami soccer fans are hoping the iconic star tucks this chance away sharply. Who knows, after almost two years of biting nails, maybe those supporters can start to concern themselves with a team name, club colours, crests and players?

“We’re in extra time now. Let’s hope it doesn’t go to penalties,” said Ramos-Paez.